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7:00AM GMT 15 Mar 2011
In the past my closest friend, Sue, explained she had dropped in love off saying, “I don’t feel the same way, you’re my best friend, I’m straight” with me and I brushed her. She is at the full time and remains in a committed relationship with kiddies. We stayed close friends throughout the years with durations where she’d take away from our relationship however we’d get back to being fine once more, at the very least, we thought we did.
Sue now informs me she’s got held it’s place in love beside me the time that is entire has struggled whenever I’ve held it’s place in relationships, which may have always been with guys. Fast-forward to now and I also find myself within my very very first relationship with a woman and it also is actually with Sue’s really friend that is best of 20 years. We don’t understand why it just happened nonetheless it did and it’s good.
She ended up being waiting for me personally to really have the “ah ha” moment and realize I happened to be meant to be together with her.
Together with only explanation she thought over time because I would never want to be with a girl that we weren’t together was. She blames me personally for the design her relationship has been doing when it comes to previous many years and she feels that I’ve led her on when it comes to whole time.
Sue is extremely annoyed beside me and I also have no idea how exactly to navigate the specific situation. She desires distance, that I have but i will be extremely upset too at having lost her relationship. She informs me she’s working on her behalf relationship and family members now and if it gets better, we are able to be buddies as time goes on.